This letter is in response to and in complete support of the previous few letters concerning eating disorders and support groups for them. I am surprised to see these letters, since in my few short weeks here, I've encountered very little on the topic. I did see an ad once about a possible group at Saint Mary's, but it didn't seem too promising. It was also limited to women. I am a male freshman at Notre Dame and I have been suffering from a mild eating disorder for at least a year. I have never met another guy with my problem. For a long time, I just assumed that guys didn't have this problem. After seeing these letters, I felt very encouraged.

In high school I found support in a few close friends, but as we went our separate ways I was left alone. Lately, I've resorted to talking to people I don't know very well. It's helped a bit, but I still have this problem in the back of my mind, boiling up, ready to hit me again. I can say that a few weeks ago, I was at the lowest point I've ever been. A Reckers Smoothie shouldn't have to carry you for five straight days.

I don't feel like I'm alone here. I also don't feel like I'm "all better." I mentioned earlier that I was suffering from a "mild" eating disorder. What if suddenly it isn't mild anymore? I don't want this problem. I've got other things to deal with. What do I do? Where am I going to go?

Who out there is willing to talk to me about this?

Anonymous

October 5, 1999

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